夫妻关系标准及发展趋势  

Couple Relationship Standards’Characteristics and Development

作　　者：刘勤学[1] 方晓义[1] 池培莲[2] 

机构地区：[1]北京师范大学发展心理研究所,北京100875 [2]香港大学社会工作及社会行政系

出　　处：《中国临床心理学杂志》2009年第4期491-494,497,共5页Chinese Journal of Clinical Psychology

摘　　要：目的:探讨夫妻关系标准的异同,以及随婚龄的发展趋势。方法:采用问卷调查法,选取东北地区婚龄在7年以上的302对夫妻为被试,以探讨夫妻双方各自的关系标准特点。结果:夫妻关系标准各维度平均分大都在3分以上,处于中等偏上水平;夫妻双方看重的位列前三位的关系标准分别为努力完美、工具性投入和表达性投入,后三位为抵抗控制、努力改变配偶和对配偶妥协;丈夫关系标准随婚龄增加呈升高的趋势,并且在对配偶妥协、努力改变、抵抗控制、工具性投入和表达性投入五个标准上显著高于妻子;真实夫妻比随机配对的夫妻在夫妻标准上有着更高的相似性,但这种相似性并未随婚龄的增加而增加。结论:丈夫的婚姻标准普遍高于妻子,且有随婚龄越来越高的趋势,而妻子关系标准的发展相对较为平稳。夫妻之间对婚姻的看法具有相似性。Objective： To explore the difference, similarity and development of couple relationship standards. Methods： 302 couples from one city in northeast of China were recruited to complete a questionnaire including couple relationship standards scale etc. Results： The average scores of husbands and wives were above 3 and in the mid to upper level; the top 3 relationship standards regarded by husbands and wives were trying to have a perfect relationship, investing time and energy into your relationship and investing time and energy to make partner feel cared and happy; the lowest 3 relationship standards were resisting partner＇s influence, trying to change partner and giving in to partner. The relationship standards of husbands increased with the years of marriage, and were significantly higher than wives in 5 dimensions： giving in to partner, trying to change partner, investing time and energy to relationship and investing time and energy to make partner feel eared and happy. The relationship standards of real couples were significantly more similar than those of randomly matched couples, but the similarity didn＇t increase with the years of marriage. Conclusion： Husbands have higher relationship standards than wives, and their relationship standards increase with the years of marriage, but wives＇ relationship standards are stable. Couples have similar views of couple standards.

关 键 词：夫妻 夫妻关系标准 夫妻相似性 婚姻咨询 

分 类 号：R395.6[哲学宗教—心理学]