“不得体”的社交表达:陆游的人际关系诗歌论析  

“Inappropriate” Social Expression: Lu You's Poems on Interpersonal Relation

作　　者：吕肖奂[1] 

机构地区：[1]四川大学中国俗文化研究所

出　　处：《四川大学学报（哲学社会科学版）》2016年第1期152-160,共9页Journal of Sichuan University：Philosophy and Social Science Edition

基　　金：国家社会科学基金"宋代唱和诗歌文化研究"(11 BZW048)

摘　　要：陆游一生不善于与人交往,多数人际关系诗歌在情绪表达上因为缺少分寸感而显得不那么"得体":在官场中与官员交往的唱和散发着自傲自负又自卑气息;与同类朋侪交往唱和不像士人那样彬彬有礼,而如同江湖游士一样亢奋使气;退居乡下后陆游基本断绝与士人阶层往来,而向无法进行更深精神层面对话的乡邻宣示个人的精神世界。因此我们几乎可以说陆游是个具有一定社交障碍的交往困难症患者。然而正是这一切在交往礼仪上的"不得体",让陆游的社交唱和诗歌脱离了一般人际关系诗歌的应酬乏味,而显得个性十足且真诚有味。Lu You is not good at communications poetry reflecting the interpersonal relations seems to with people in his whole life, and the majority of his be less ＂decent＂ because of the lack of propriety in emotional expression： the responsory in the official contacts with the officials carries a mixture of pride, self- esteem and inferiority; while singing with his peers, he is not that refined or courteous like a scholar, but is exited and casual like a free civilian; when Lu You is relegated to the countryside, he almost cuts off the contacts with the scholars and declares his personal spiritual world to the countryside neighbors with whom he can＇t make deeper spiritual dialogue. So we can say that Lu You has some communication difficulties in social communications to some extent. However, just due to his ＂indecency＂ in the communication etiquette, he is able to get rid of the boring entertainment existing in the common interpersonal relations poetry, thus reflecting his true personality and a genuine taste.

关 键 词：陆游 社交障碍 人际关系诗歌 

分 类 号：I207.22[文学—中国文学]