性别不信任及其多样化生产——打工青年信任与亲密关系的互动分析  

Gender Distrust and Diversified Productions:Analysis on Interaction between Trust and Intimate Relationship among Young Migrant Workers

作　　者：杜平 DU Ping(Department of Social Work and Social Policy, Zhou En-Lai School of Government, Nankai University, Tianjin 300350, China)

机构地区：[1]南开大学周恩来政府管理学院社会工作与社会政策系,天津300350

出　　处：《妇女研究论丛》2019年第2期30-43,共14页Journal of Chinese Women＇s Studies

基　　金：教育部人文社会科学研究青年基金项目"婚姻制度变迁中亲密关系选择的个体-社会互动研究"(项目编号:17YJC840009);中央高校基本科研业务费专项资金资助项目"传统与现代之间:新生代农民工婚恋问题研究"(项目编号:NKZXB1485)的阶段性结果

摘　　要：基于爱情的亲密关系充满现代性想象,信任是其进阶发展中最渴求的品质。本文基于2007年、2009年、2012年和2013年的田野资料分析发现:当打工青年的亲密探索迈向婚姻时,个人与家庭的博弈表现为情境化信任与结构性不信任之间的较量,并呈现鲜明的性别烙印。女性在渗透于日常生活的负面体验中进行性别信心、可靠性和可预测性层面性别不信任的体验式生产,而男性则发展出一般化与情境化的性别不信任。性别不信任预示自由恋爱的幻想破灭,而当婚姻依然是一种生活的必然时,相亲和自由恋爱互为替代性选择,刻画出亲密关系现代化变革的非线性轨迹。在此过程中,打工青年现代体验式与传统关系式交互生产的性别不信任彰显出相较于西方经验更为多样化、本土化的生产特征。Intimate relationship is filled with imagination of modernity, and trust becomes the most desired quality in its development.Based on qualitative data collected in 2007,2009,2012 and 2013,this paper reveals:when young migrant workers go towards marriage during their intimate explorations, the rivalry between individuals and their families focuses on the competition between situated trust and structural distrust,which shows significant gender differences. Through negative experiences in daily life,the females develop gender distrust in an experience-based way at three levels of faith, dependability, and predictability, while the males develop both generalized and situated gender distrusts. Gender distrust indicates disillusion with the pursuit of love. But when marriage still is a must in life, blind date and romantic love provide alternative choices for each other when any of them fails. It shapes the non-linear trajectories of modernized development of intimacy. During this process, experience-based and guanxi-based productions of gender distrust among young migrant workers demonstrate its diversified and localized attributes, in comparison with western experiences.

关 键 词：亲密关系 性别不信任 体验式生产 关系式生产 乡城迁移 

分 类 号：C913.[经济管理]