个体化视角下当代青年“恐婚”现象及应对策略研究  

Research on Contemporary Youth’s Fear of Marriage and its Countermeasures from the Perspective of Individualization

作　　者：贾云乾 JIA Yun-qian(College of Philosophy and Sociology,Jilin University,Changchun 130015,China)

机构地区：[1]吉林大学哲学社会学院,吉林长春130015

出　　处：《山西青年职业学院学报》2022年第2期42-47,共6页Journal of Shanxi Youth Vocational College

摘　　要：社会转型背景下,个体化特征突显。利己主义与利他主义之间的矛盾与张力使得当代青年对婚姻这一稳定关系产生了恐惧。运用质性研究方法对青年恐婚现象进行分析发现:“脱嵌”后的不确定性是青年恐婚的社会根源;“去传统化”过程中亲密关系发生变革,青年崇尚自由恋爱却陷入良缘难寻的困境,性关系的公开化拉开了爱情与婚姻的距离;个体化趋势下,家庭呈现出日常化的混乱状态,加剧了个体对婚姻的恐惧化想象。为使“脱嵌”的个体“嵌入”家庭,进而发挥家庭的社会功能,个体应重视婚姻中的理性与情感的双重考量,树立正确的婚姻爱情观;社会需要完善公共服务为家庭减负,扩展第三空间,缓冲工作与家庭的矛盾。In the context of social transformation,the characteristics of individualization are emphasized.The tension between egoism and altruism makes contemporary youth fear the stable relationship of marriage.From the perspective of individualization,this paper utilizes qualitative research methods to analyze the phenomenon of marriage fear in young people.It is found that the uncertainty after“disembedding”constitutes the social root of youth’s fear of marriage.In the process of“de-traditionalization”,intimate relationships have changed,advocating free love but falling into the dilemma of good relations,and the openness of sexual relations has opened up the distance between love and marriage.Under the trend of individualization,the family presents a state of daily chaos,which intensifies the individual’s fear of marriage.In order to make the“disembedding”individual“embed”in the family,and then give full play to the social function of the family,the individual should pay attention to the dual consideration of rationality and emotion in a marriage,and establish a correct concept of marriage and love.Society needs to improve public services to reduce the burden on families,expand the third space,and buffer the contradictions between work and family.

关 键 词：恐婚青年 个体化 利己主义 利他主义 不确定性 

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