论“喜宝式爱情”与“灰姑娘情结”对当代女性婚恋价值观的启示  

On the lnspiration of“Xibao-Style Love”and“Cinderella Complex”on the Contemporary Female values

作　　者：李莉 LI Li(Infrastructure Construction Department of Sichuan University of Arts and Science,Dazou Sichuan 635000,China)

机构地区：[1]四川文理学院基建处,四川达州635000

出　　处：《四川文理学院学报》2022年第6期71-74,共4页Sichuan University of Arts and Science Journal

摘　　要：亦舒小说《喜宝》讲述了主人公姜喜宝出卖爱情和尊严获得金钱的故事。通过对“喜宝式爱情”与喜宝的“灰姑娘情结”的描述,分析当代女性中存在消极的婚恋价值观,对其影响进行了深入探讨.当代女性如何从中悟出爱情的真谛,端正恋爱动机、提高自爱能力,自尊、自爱、自信、自强,不迁就,不顺从,开眼界,阔格局,爱自己,才是终身浪漫的开始。Yishu’s novel Xibao tells the story of Jiang Xibao,the main character,who sells love and dignity to get money.Through the description of“Xibao-style love”and Xibao’s“Cinderella complex”,this paper analyzes the self-values of negation of self,passive waiting,obedience and dependence,and love values of money transaction among contemporary female,and then makes an in-depth discussion of their influences.How contemporary female college students learn the true meaning of love and build ideal values from it is worth our deep thinking.The lifelong romance begins from correct love motivation,improvement of self-love ability,self-esteem,self-love,self-confidence,self-improvement,no obedience broad pattern,love yourself,and so on.We expect that during the“14th Five-Year Plan”period,when the economy has achieved new results and social civilization has been improved,and even in the next century when common prosperity is achieved,the contemporary youth will usher in a new ideology and become self-aware,sober,sophisticated and independent.

关 键 词：喜宝 灰姑娘 婚恋观 启示 

分 类 号：G645[文化科学—高等教育学]