儒家忠恕思想对大学生人际交往的价值  

Value of Confucian Loyalty and Forgiveness to Interpersonal Communication of College Students

作　　者：葛世林 杨恺成 GE Shilin;YANG Kaicheng(Beijing University,Beijing 100871,China;Fudan University,Shanghai 200433,China)

机构地区：[1]北京大学,北京100871 [2]复旦大学,上海200433

出　　处：《扬州大学学报（高教研究版）》2024年第4期28-36,共9页Journal of Yangzhou University（Higher Education Study Edition）

基　　金：北京大学第三十二届“挑战杯”系列赛事特别贡献奖研究招标课题“北京大学青年学生宣讲团体推动文化宣传的创新路径研究”(TG01-19)。

摘　　要：忠恕思想是儒家学说中的核心内容,是处理人际关系的重要原则。“忠”是“己欲立而立人,己欲达而达人”的为人准则,“恕”是“己所不欲,勿施于人”的成事之基,二者一体两面,重在“推己及人”。面对当前大学生人际交往过程中戒备心强、个人中心倾向严重、性格差异较大等问题,儒家忠恕思想对优化大学生人际交往具有重要借鉴意义和实践价值。忠恕之道是“仁爱”思想的实现途径,是提升自身修养的有效方法,也是人与人情感互动的关系准则。在新时代高校大学生人际交往活动中,辩证地认识和运用忠恕思想,有助于解决大学生人际交往问题,建立和谐的大学生人际关系。Loyalty and forgiveness is the core of Confucianism and one of the important principles in dealing with interpersonal relations.“Loyalty”reflects the principle of establishing others as you would establish yourself and helping others to develop as you would help yourself to.“Forgiveness”is the basis of implementing the principle “of do not do to others what you would not have others do to you.”Loyalty and forgiveness are the two sides of one entity,highlighting the awareness of putting yourself in another person s shoes.With their various personalities,contemporary college students tend to be strongly alert and self-centered in interpersonal interactions.In this case,Confucian loyalty and forgiveness has referential and practical significance.It is the path to approach Confucian benevolence and an effective way of self cultivation.In the meanwhile,it is the relational standard in emotional interactions.In the interpersonal communication of college students in the new era,dialectical cognition and practice of loyalty and forgiveness is conducive to establishing harmonious interpersonal relationship.

关 键 词：儒家忠恕思想 大学生人际交往 大学生和谐人际关系 

分 类 号：G641[文化科学—高等教育学]