活在“缘分”中而非“关系”里:青年社交现象的情感透视及路向审思  

Living in "Fate" Instead of "Relationships":An Emotional Perspective and Reflection on the Path for Youth Social Interaction

作　　者：方佳雯 Fang Jiawen(School of Marxism,Nanjing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics,Nanjing,Jiangsu,211106)

机构地区：[1]南京航空航天大学马克思主义学院,江苏南京211106

出　　处：《高校辅导员学刊》2025年第1期64-69,98,99,共8页Journal of College Advisor

摘　　要：在当代青年社交图景中,断亲现象的出现映射了青年群体在情感独立与自我实现间寻求微妙平衡的拉扯。疏离与牵绊的交织中,青年试图割断“关系”去定位真实的自我。搭子社交的兴起,则显露了青年群体对于轻松交往与情感保护的渴求。青年在浅交往与真情感间划清界限,展现了另一种以“缘分”开始的浅社交。然而,断亲并不代表青年可以忽视和谐亲缘关系的力量,而搭子社交所带来的短效保鲜式体验也需理性看待。浅缘社会中,青年应辩证看待“缘分”与“关系”,树立正确的家庭观与交往观,以寻求真正坚韧的亲密关系。In the contemporary social landscape of youth,the emergence of the phenomenon of breaking off relative reflects the delicate balance sought by youth between emotional independence and self-fulfillment.Amidst the intertwining of alienation and bondage,youth attempt to sever"relationships"to locate their true selves.The rise of hitchhiking social interaction reveals their desire for effortless interaction and emotional protection.Youth draw clear boundaries between superficial interactions and genuine emotions,demonstrating another form of shallow socializing that begins with"fate".However,break off relative does not mean that youth can ignore the power of harmonious familial relationships,and the short-lived freshness brought by hitchhiking social interaction also requires rational consideration. In a society of shallow connections,youth should dialectically view "fate" and "relationships",establish correct views on family and social interaction,and seek truly resilient intimate relationships.

关 键 词：青年 断亲 搭子社交 

分 类 号：G641[文化科学—高等教育学]