文化、情感与互惠:农村“嫁娶投入趋同化”的生成逻辑——对豫中R村“出阁宴”的考察  

Culture,Emotion,and Reciprocity:The Logic behind the Convergence of Marriage Investment in Rural Areas——An Examination of the“Departure Banquet”in R Village,Central Henan

作　　者：栗志强 魏莞琼 LI Zhi-qiang;WEI Wan-qiong(School of Politics and Law,Zhengzhou University of Light Industry,Zhengzhou 450000,China)

机构地区：[1]郑州轻工业大学政法学院,河南郑州450000

出　　处：《山东女子学院学报》2025年第1期120-131,共12页Journal of Shandong Women's University

基　　金：国家社会科学基金项目“新时代农村孝道的代际变化及其传承发展研究”(项目编号:18BSH091)。

摘　　要：近年来,豫中农村地区操办嫁女“出阁宴”之风兴起,女儿出嫁与儿子娶亲的投入日趋接近,呈现出“嫁娶投入趋同化”的态势。以嫁女“出阁宴”兴起为表征的“嫁娶投入趋同化”是农村“男女平等”的性别文化得到普遍认同、子女数减少背景下父母对女儿情感上的依赖和珍视、“女儿养老”崛起背景下父母与女儿互惠性交换的理性考量等多重因素综合作用的结果,其本质是家庭和社会适应新的社会情势对于女儿身份的重新建构。以“出阁宴”为代表的“嫁娶投入趋同化”标示着新时代农村性别文化的深刻变革和家庭关系的结构性变迁,农村传统的家庭性别地位格局和伦理体系在这一变革过程中逐渐重构。对“嫁娶投入趋同化”需要辩证看待,既要承认其积极意义,也要防止盲目攀比、大操大办,助长不良社会风气。In recent years,the practice of hosting“departure banquets”for daughters’marriages has become popular in rural areas of central Henan,with the expenditure on daughters’marriages approaching that of sons’weddings,indicating a trend towards the convergence of marriage investment.The convergence of marriage investment,symbolized by the rise of“departure banquets”for daughters,is a result of multiple factors,including the widespread acceptance of gender equality in rural culture,the emotional dependence and appreciation of daughters in the context of a decreasing number of children and the emergence of daughters providing for their parents’old age,rational considerations of reciprocal exchanges between parents and daughters.Essentially,it reflects the reconfiguration of daughters’identities by families and society in response to new social circumstances.The convergence of marriage investment,represented by“departure banquets”,signifies a profound transformation in the gender culture of rural areas and a structural shift in family relationships.The traditional patterns of family gender roles and ethical systems in rural areas are gradually being reconstructed during this process.The convergence of marriage investment should be viewed dialectically,acknowledging its positive significance while also guarding against blind competition and extravagant practices that may foster negative social trends.

关 键 词：出阁宴 嫁娶投入趋同化 女儿身份重构 家庭关系结构性变迁 

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