自我恋爱:乙女游戏中的新型爱情叙事和亲密关系转型  

Self-Centered Romantic Love:A New Form of Love in Otome Games and Transformation of Intimate Relationships

作　　者：沈奕斐[1] 宁雅昕 SHEN Yi-fei;NING Ya-xin(Department of Sociology,School of Social Development and Public Policy,Fudan University,Shanghai 200433,China)

机构地区：[1]复旦大学社会发展与公共政策学院社会学系,上海200433

出　　处：《妇女研究论丛》2025年第1期40-52,共13页Journal of Chinese Women's Studies

摘　　要：在数字娱乐时代,作为一种面向女性玩家的恋爱模拟游戏,乙女游戏已成为当代年轻女性探索与实践情感的重要载体。本文通过文本分析、参与观察及深度访谈,探讨乙女游戏如何通过高度互动性与个性化定制构建以“自我恋爱”为特征的亲密关系。“自我恋爱”不是一种虚拟感情,也不是一种“拟社会关系”,而是一种真实的感受。这种自我恋爱以消费为基础,强调正向反馈、平等自由和自我发展,充分发挥主动性和主导性,通过多重的互动重塑性别角色的理想爱情。然而,这种情感实践植根于消费逻辑和简单的平等快乐,可能加剧情感与经济的捆绑,并不能消解现实中的性别不平等,而且只有快乐没有复杂体验的爱情也可能会使得“他者”在两性关系中进一步消失。本文深入分析了乙女游戏在虚拟情感中的积极意义及其局限,为理解现代亲密关系的转型及女性情感需求提供了独特视角。In the era of digital entertainment,otome games,as a type of romance simulation game targeting female players,have become a vital medium for contemporary young women's emotional practices.Combining textual analysis,player interaction studies,and in-depth interviews,this article examines how otome games construct virtual intimate relationships based on“self-centered romantic love”through high interactivity and personalized customization.This love is not a virtual emotion,nor a“pseudo-social relationship”,it is a genuine feeling.It is based on consumption,emphasizing positive feedback,equality and freedom,and self-development,fully exerting initiative and dominance.Through multiple interactions,it reshapes the ideal love of gender roles.However,this emotional practice,rooted in consumption and simplistic equality and happiness,may intensify the binding of emotions and economy,and cannot dissolve gender inequality in reality.Moreover,love with only happiness and no complex experiences may further lead to the disappearance of the“other”in gender-based relationships.This article deeply analyzes the positive significance as well as limitations of otome games in virtual reality and emotions,and aims to provide a unique perspective for understanding the transformation of modern intimate relationships and the emotional needs of women.

关 键 词：乙女游戏 拟社会关系 自我恋爱 情感自主 情感商品化 

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