亲密有间:两代人话语中的新孝道  

Being Close while Keeping Space: Research on the New Model of Filial Piety among Intergenerational Discourses

作　　者：康岚[1] 

机构地区：[1]上海社会科学院社会学研究所

出　　处：《当代青年研究》2014年第4期83-89,共7页Contemporary Youth Research

摘　　要：当前,现代城市家庭的孝道标准已由"顺从"向"尊重"演化,亲子间的互动模式由"奉养无违"转变为"亲密有间"。因此,建基于个体独立和平等关系的新孝道模式有利于代际间的"自立"和形成有"利他"情感的亲密关系。新孝道提出了更高层次的孝道要求,即对精神赡养的重视(显亲、悦亲强化),而物质赡养成为辅助性要求(养亲、侍亲弱化),使孝道理念回归到基于对父母的尊敬和真挚的爱而"善待"父母。Currently, the interrelationship between parents and their grown-up children have changed from tendance and obedience to be close while keeping space. New model based on individual independence and equal relationship helps to form inter-relational self-independence, as well as a close relationship with altruism emotions. Therefore, the new model demands a higher level of filial piety. It emphasizes more on spiritual support than material support. Therefore, values of filial piety will go back to treating parents kindly with children＇s respect and their deep love towards parents.

关 键 词：精神赡养 新孝道 亲密有间 代际关系 

分 类 号：B82-069[哲学宗教—伦理学]