当代大学生的恋爱问题及教育应对  

Contempory University Students’Falling in Love Issue and Its Educational Countermeasures

作　　者：魏晓娟 WEI Xiao-juan(School of Marxism,Shandong Youth University of Political Science,Jinan 250103,China)

机构地区：[1]山东青年政治学院马克思主义学院,济南250103

出　　处：《山东青年政治学院学报》2021年第6期35-41,共7页Journal of Shandong Youth University of Political Science

摘　　要：为深入了解当代大学生的恋爱特点及存在的问题,采用自编问卷对山东省8所高校1369名大学生进行的调查显示:大学生的恋爱从"准大一"开始,恋爱普遍化、低年级化;恋爱观较为积极,两情相悦是恋爱的主导因素,但也出现多元化、消极性等不和谐音符;择偶重个体内在因素,也受物质经济条件影响,表现出理想化、功利性并存的矛盾;婚前性行为观念开放、发生率高,而性知识严重不足,对婚前性行为持有"双重标准"。家长的支持、学校的不禁止、身边同伴的影响、教育引导的缺失是导致上述问题出现的主要外因。基于学校的立场,建议从提升高校育人能力、积极开展恋爱教育、构建"家-校-社会"的教育合力三大方面着手,预防和解决大学生恋爱中存在的问题。In order to figure out the characteristics and problems of contemporary university students’love,a self-designed questionnaire was used to investigate 1369 students in eight universities in Shandong province.The results show that contemporary university students’falling in love starts from the quasi freshman,and their love is universal and younger;their view of love is more positive,and the dominant factor of love is mutual affection,but there are also some disharmonious factors such as diversity and negativity;the choice of spouse is influenced by material and economic conditions,which shows the contradiction of idealism and utilitarianism;the attitude of premarital sexual behavior is open and the incidence rate is high,but the sexual knowledge is seriously insufficient.Some students have"double standards"to the premarital sex behavior.The main external causes of the above problems are the support of parents,the non prohibition of schools,the influence of peers and the lack of education guidance.Based on the position of the university,it is suggested to prevent and solve the love problems of college students from three aspects:improving the ability of education,actively carrying out love education,and constructing the educational joint force of home,school and society.

关 键 词：大学生 恋爱特征 婚恋教育 

分 类 号：G416[文化科学—教育学]