传统家训中的青年交友观阐析  

The Analysis of the View on Making Friends for Young People in Traditional Family Instruction

作　　者：王颖[1] Wang Ying

机构地区：[1]北京青年政治学院东方道德研究所

出　　处：《北京青年研究》2022年第3期14-20,共7页Beijing Youth Research

基　　金：北京市教育委员会社科计划重点项目“家训与中国古代儿童的道德生活”(项目编号:SZ201811626031)的成果。

摘　　要：早在先秦时期,孟子就把朋友关系列入封建社会五种基本伦理关系中。朋友关系,作为重要的社会关系,对于个体的德业、学业和事业都具有不可忽视的影响,故自古以来人们就非常重视家中子弟的交友问题,在家训中留下许多颇具价值的交友思想。其中,对朋友关系的深刻认识,择友时应该遵守的贵德、重才和救难的基本标准,以及交友时应该坚持的真诚、守信和平等的基本原则,都具有现代价值,对于今天青年树立正确健康的交友观具有积极的指导意义。As early as the pre Qin Period, Mencius listed the friendship in the five basic ethical relations in the feudal society. As an important social relationship, friendship has an inescapable impact on the individual morality, study, and career. Therefore, people paid special attention to make friends for children from ancient times. There were many valuable ideas about making friends in their family instructions. They have modern values that the profound understanding of the friendship, the basic standards of Virtue, talents,and assistance that should be observed in choosing friends, and the basic principles of sincerity, honesty, equality that should be insisted on in making friends. It has a positive reference meaning for guiding the young people to establish a correct and healthy view of making friends today.

关 键 词：家训 青年 交友观 

分 类 号：B823.1[哲学宗教—伦理学] C913.5[经济管理] C912.1[社会学]